Well i was sited and i thought to myself i have around two months to my 22nd birthday. I would like to share what i have learnt about life so far. My experience and what i would advice my younger self. I hope you enjoy leave a comment below and tell me some of the advises you could give your younger self.
1. Not everyone will like you. It may be a little bit difficult to understand that but LOVE yourself enough to accept it.
2. Self confidence is key. Believe in your self. Believe you are the best version of yourself. I keep telling myself this everyday. Its so important.
3. Appreciate the people that love you . Hug them as often as you can and always make them smile.
4. Sometimes we give too much to a point we loose ourselves in the process especially in Relationships. Always remember to spare sometime for yourself. Take care of yourself.
5. Accept your body with it flaws. Be confident in your body. Accept that skin completion.
6. You can be whoever you want to be in life you just need to have the right mentality.
7. YES THIS IS SO IMPORTANT trust your ‘body’. That moment you think about something and you feel the butterflies in your stomach and your stomach rambling. It means that something bad is about to happen so respond to it.
8. Be kind to everyone regardless of how they treat you.
9. Its okay to be angry that means that something has to change. People say anger doesn’t leave you the same way it found you.
10.Know your worth as an individual and don’t settle for less especially in a working environment. Don’t be too desperate. People may take advantage of that and even under charge you for your services. This has happened to me once.
11. Work hard, hustle and strive for your own independence.
12. Forgive other and forgive yourself. Most often we carry the burdens in our heart thinking that the other person feels the same forgetting that it only affects you and You alone.
13. Say what you mean and mean what you say. Be true to your word.
14.Don’t procrastinate. If you want something done and it is possible for it to be done right now do it.
15. Don’t miss any meal. lol I know this sounds funny but am that kind of person who can miss a whole day meal just for no reason at all. Will do a blog on my underweight situation.
16. Do what you are most passionate about Success will come after that. I am passionate about blogging and i know i always say girl it will be on Sundays and Wednesday but i end up doing it whenever i find time to.
17. You don’t have to go to the club to fit in. Its okay to chill at home. The pressure of going to the club and parting is always felt in your teen and early 20’s but its okay to be different.
18. Sometimes just saying No to something might be the best decision ever and not everyone deserves an explanation.
19. Save money. Money is a scarce resource so save that Money .
20. We are all blessed just different timings.
21. Lastly YOU ARE EXACTLY WHERE YOU ARE MEANT TO BE.
No one is YOU and that is your super power.